Some one should buy this thing!

HHH parts two and three

Not at all where I was going with last post.......haha .  I kind of got carried away there.  Hockey is on us (second H)  Jayms is playing on Interlake's City Midget Team.  He always amazes us on his ability to overcome.  His determination to be on this team was something to be admired.  It has not been easy as towards the end of tryouts suffered a lower back injury, he has no idea how it started. But sitting out a couple of weeks was really hard for him.  We have been taking him to physio a couple days a week, and he has learned to play with some discomfort in his thigh.  His lower back has improved, but he still needs regular massage therapy to be able to play relatively without pain.  So with the size and speed of the game it is necessary for him to play "smart" . This is how he has gotten here.  So many players can skate and Hit....but have no idea where they are?  Jayms knows the game and understands it better than most.  He is getting a regular shift and plays on the powerplay.  Our team is struggling, and may not win many games this year, and so points are hard to come by, but I am very proud of my Son!

HHH-Part One

Helloween,Hockey and Happiness.  It's been a while since I sat down and blogged.  Not knowing who my readers will be, gives me the responsibility to speak in such a way as to not mislead or direct anyone into a false lifestyle.........LOL  I guess if you disagree with me I have already failed.  I've never been much of a speller, but I think I spelled everything correctly in this blog.  I even corrected spell check to make sure all was accurate.  I was in contact with a certain someBODY that had the boldness to proclaim carving a pumpkin at Helloween was Sin and that we as Christians have sold out to Satan, and his worshipers holiday.  Funny how the most "Sincere and Holy of Perfect knowledge of Truth" make it their "Religion" to play right into the Satanic ritual of Helloween.  Passing judgement on Christians who in their own opinion violate the Religious standards of the Bible.  (having read the Bible a few times......there is no Religious standard!)  Wow! get to the point Dale, and move on.... I guess I have always been uncomfortable with Helloween and for good reason.  If I only look at the evil it can bring out we should avoid it.  However As Christians living in the Light, we can make a difference in reclaiming every day as "the Lord's Day"  Why give this day to Satan. Christians go out and have fun and put Christ into Halloween.  I kind of find this funny as even in worldly standards Halloween is not about Worshiping Satan, but collecting candy.  Not so Funny when good intentioned Christians try to put Hell into Halloween.  We are not of the world, but we are certainly in the world and should show our love towards one another in a positive way and continue to dilute the "HELL IN HALLOWEEN.  Before you jump all over me as if I am a huge supporter of Hallloween.......I am not.  This is a time of year to pray even more for the lost.  This is a time of year The Light needs to shine in the world.  I am not at all saying the we can participate in all the stupid things of Helloween....like Dressing in Devil clothes or being demons and ghosts, or playing with witchcraft "Harry potter", books.  But we can have fun and put some Light in the world. Christian, let's turn this holiday into a Christian holiday!  As members of God's Church, go out and share this Light.

Finding this annoying

More and more grace preachers are attacking the common "sinners prayer". Basically teaching that it overrides the finish work of what Jesus did on the cross. The bible teaches we are to repent and believe in order to be saved. They teach that when little children pray that Jesus come into their heart, that this is putting a condition on their salvation. While it is correct that we repent and believe...it is also true that repentance only takes place when we have changed our hearts. Romans 10:9-10. Also the heart is talked about some 150 times in the new testament. jesus often referred to the condition of one's heart.

Also these preachers need to go back and learn that repentance is not a act of works, but a heart felt changing of ones mind which happens when we first come to faith by believing.

Smoke Dope

IS IT OKAY TO SMOKE DOPE JUST A LITTLE?

Summer almost gone!

Man was it ever cold today! Hard to imagine 30 plus weather only a few days ago.  Well I have been writing about our last 25 years of marriage together, and I realize I still have one more reason we are still married to
write you about.  Honestly.......I can't think of one ....haha  See not as brite as you might think.  How about some negatives to avoid, and making that number 10.  DO NOT ATEMPT THIS IN YOUR MARRIAGE

1)  Cheat on partner

2)  Stop talking to your partner

3)  Emotionally abuse your partner

4)  Keep finances to yourself

5)  Be Boring

How popular is that!

Now if your counting I will skip reason eight and go on to reason nine and ten as to why we are still married.  Maybe if I can bring it out correctly we will discuss number eight later.  This one might bring me some strange looks.  Let's consider the animals for a moment.  Male and Female God created each and every species.  In every specie of animals both male and female have roles that contribute to the success of a union.  I heard that there is a spider whose only means of mating is rape. They hide in the brush and bait females with a food trap, then they literally jump on them and mate.  HOLD ON, don't be jumping to no conclusions.  The point I am making with this harsh reality is that both male and female spiders are content with this arrangement.  Sometimes it is the female that does the hunting and the males lie around doing nothing.  The reality is that both sexes in the animal world live out their existence within their roles.

Gaylene and I have both agreed to do our part to make our marriage work.  We have roles in our relationship that we have simply accepted as to what contributes to a healthy marriage.  Does this mean I only do what I feel is my role.  Absolutely not.  This is what sets humans apart from the animal world. We need to contribute within the agreement of the couple, our roles or parts.  And since we Love our partners, help them in theirs.  I think it is so important to work out what we will bring to the relationship, and to do it with joy, knowing we are pleasing our mates.  Gaylene and I have found that what we bring to the relationship and how we please our mates is what pleases God and so God blesses these marriages.  So reason number nine......Take Joy in pleasing your mate.  Even if you have maintained the yard for years, or made meals forever!  There is a greater lesson here I want to get across. 

There is a story of a man who died and went to heaven to find two signs above two different lines. One sign said: "ALL THOSE MEN WHO HAVE BEEN DOMINATED BY THEIR WIVES, STAND HERE." That line of men seemed to stretch off through the clouds into infinity.

The second sign read: "ALL THOSE WHO HAVE NEVER BEEN DOMINATED BY THEIR WIVES, STAND HERE." Underneath the sign stood one man.
He went over to the man, grabbed his arm and said, "What's the secret, how did you do it? That other line has millions of men and you are the only one standing in this line."
The man looked around with a puzzled expression and said, "Why, I am not sure I know. My wife just told me to stand here."

Seriously.......Men be leaders in your marriage. #1 responsibility

But I want you to understand that Christ is the head of every man, and the man is the head of a woman, and God is the head of Christ. 1 Corinthians 11:3

responsibility number  2 Love your wife unconditionally.

Ephesians 5:25 reads, "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her."

and responsibility number 3  Serve your wife.

John 13: 1-17  According to the New Testament, being head of your wife does not mean being her master, but her servant. Again, Christ is our model for this type of leadership. Jesus did not just talk about serving; He demonstrated it when he washed His disciples' feet.